The women’s health blog that I read is considered “safe space”, so that means you’re free to post whatever you’d like without the fear of being judged.

That’s all fine and good, but frankly, some of these women need a wake up call. The most recent post was about how a girl went through a “crazy slut year” and this year is swearing off dudes, but her best male friend made fun of it at dinner and one of his friends proceeded to pursue this girl after dinner.

The guy made up some story about having missed his train stop and could he stay with her. This girl let the guy stay and then he tried to take advantage of her. Everyone on the blog is like, you’re not wrong, this guy is an asshole, blah blah blah.

Yes, this guy had ZERO right to touch this woman or pursue her with such veracity when he knew it was unwanted, but this girl SHOULD NOT HAVE LET THIS MAN SPEND THE NIGHT IN HER APARTMENT. He clearly took this as a sign that she could be potentially interested, even though she clearly was not. He did not rape her, but he definitely tried to grope her and things.

Why do girls let dudes make them “feel bad” for voicing their opinions and making their own decisions? Ugh.